Nina

The Bedroom Setup For Better Sleep

  • Don’t do anything in bed other than sleeping and sex
  • Remove all electronics from your bedroom at least 30 minutes before bedtime
  • Keep it cool: 16-18°C/60-65°F
  • Keep it dark: blackout curtains or blinds are ideal; make sure no LEDs are visible (e.g. from chargers or devices)
  • Let fresh air in to the bedroom for 10 min before going to sleep (even in winter)
  • Consider Feng Shui: Bed facing the entrance wall, no large plants, no doors or windows next to the headboard, no mirrors and only neutral colors.

The Right Meditation Posture

body

  • Sit comfortably, either on a chair or cross-legged on the floor on a cushion
  • Make your spine long, as if you are being pulled upwards from the top of your head
  • Relax your shoulders
  • Optional: Rest your back against a wall

head

  • Bend your head slightly, as if gazing down from a balcony
  • Relax all muscles around your mouth
  • Close your eyes 99%, keeping all muscles around your eyes relaxed and letting a little slither of light through

hands

  • Rest them comfortably in your lap or on your knees
  • Optional: Make a specific hand gesture or mudra (Sanskrit-word for seal) for better energy flow:
Meditation hand mudra examples
4 common mudras

How To Eat For A Long Life

15 clean and healthy diet rules to follow for longevity

  1. Follow a diet with a high vitamin and mineral content
  2. Select ingredients that your ancestors would have eaten
  3. Eat mostly vegan and high quantities of vegetables (tomatoes, broccoli, carrots, legumes, etc.)
  4. Minimize saturated fats from animal sources (meat, cheese)
  5. Two or three times per week (not more) eat high-quality seafood with low mercury-levels, high omega-3, omega-6, and vitamin B12 content (e.g. sardines, anchovies, salmon, cod, trout, shrimp, and clams)
  6. Take a multivitamin 2 times per week
  7. If you are below the age of 65, keep your protein intake low (0.31 to 0.36 grams per pound of body weight).
  8. To preserve muscle mass in old age slightly increase your protein intake and the consumption of fish, eggs, white meat, and goat and sheep products
  9. Consume beans, chickpeas, green peas, and other legumes as your main source of protein.
  10. Minimize sugar intake
  11. Maximize good fats (e.g. at least 3 tablespoons of olive oil and 1 ounce of nuts per day)
  12. Eat complex carbs and whole grains
  13. Based on your weight and age, have two or three meals per day (overweight or at risk to gain weight, eat breakfast plus one main meal a day, plus two low-sugar snacks with less than 100 calories each. Normal weight or at risk of losing weight or over 65 and of normal weight, eat three meals a day and one low-sugar snack with fewer than 100 calories.)
  14. Keep all meals within a twelve-hour period (for example between 8 a.m. and 8 p.m).
  15. Don’t eat anything in the three to four hours before you go to sleep

From the “How to stay young” series by Dr. Valter Longo

The Advantages Of Old Age

3 quotes on old age from the novel Baba Dunja’s Last Love by Alina Bronsky:

The good thing about being old is that you no longer need to ask anyone for permission.

If I would still be wondering about people at my age, I wouldn’t even have enough time to brush my teeth.

I have learned not to give any advice unless I am specifically asked to do so.

What Does It Mean To Be Spiritual?

Nature is a symbol for spirituality.

“Spirituality is solving the problem called “you“.”

Anthony De Mello

You can call spirituality consciousness, awareness, love or awakening.

It all means the same thing: To finally see things as they really are.

It means to be aware and to observe, without judgment or social conditioning.

It means to stop running from or towards certain feelings or situations but to instead accept and surrender.

Therefore, Spirituality is all about unlearning all the stuff that you were taught.

Once you start looking at life with “baby”-eyes again (or a beginner’s mind Shoshin– how it’s called in Zen Buddhism), you begin living the spiritual life, which is pure freedom in its essence:

To not get caught up in your thoughts or with the illusion of the self, but simply being in awe of the wonder of your life.